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		<title>10 Reasons Why Musicians Must Use Twitter</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2010 20:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Luca</dc:creator>
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<p style="text-align: center;">It&#8217;s not rocket science that <a href="http://twitter.com">Twitter</a> was hugely influential to the success of <a href="http://twitter.com/tinietempah">Tinie Tempah&#8217;s</a><em> Pass Out </em>heading to the top of the UK Singles Chart for two weeks in March 2010.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-554" title="Top Tweeters" src="http://www.iamluca.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/Twitter-12-449x449.jpg" alt="Twitter 12 449x449 10 Reasons Why Musicians Must Use Twitter" width="449" height="449" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>But why is <a href="http://twitter.com/">Twitter</a> so important to the marketing campaign of an artist?</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Are the artists that are not utilising <a href="http://twitter.com/">Twitter</a> to it&#8217;s full capacity missing out?</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>Are they jeopardizing their career also?</em></p>
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<p>I read a blog post recently written by <a href="http://twitter.com/Semtex">DJ Semtex</a>. He touched on <a href="http://bit.ly/aFcwH6">some key points that Musicians and Artists should follow</a> if they are serious about a career in this industry and the post picked up some interesting comments from both sides of the spectrum.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I then decided to investigate into 10 Reasons Why Musicians and Artists Must use Twitter.</p>
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<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>1. Network and Collaborate with the whole Music Industry</strong></p>
<p>We have all heard cliche terms like <em>&#8220;it&#8217;s not what you know, it&#8217;s who you know&#8221; </em>right?<br />
Well i say &#8220;it&#8217;s not what you know and who you know, it&#8217;s what you do with what you know and who you know.&#8221;</p>
<p>With Twitter you actually have the opportunity to understand how a person&#8217;s mind thinks, by the way they construct their short messages. You can witness their daily activities and you have the ability to network with them if you can work out what makes them tick. It&#8217;s all about knowing how to <strong>Influence the Influencer</strong>&#8230;</p>
<p>As <a href="http://theworstkeptsecret.com">Andrew Davis of The Worst Kept Secret</a> states, <em>&#8220;They say a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Well, the way to a DJ’s turntable is through his ego.”</em></p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>2. Engagement and Interaction with your fan base</strong></p>
<p><em>What&#8217;s the point of being in this industry if you&#8217;re not going to interact with your fan base?</em></p>
<p>Your fans are your market and will make or break your career. So many artists make basic fundamental errors by failing to engage with their market and thus are disconnected. If you make the effort to be at one with your fans, they will embrace you like you are the most popular person at school.</p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>3. Promoting Your Music and Understanding your Audience</strong></p>
<p>Since the rise of Social Media over the last few years, the platform for you to go from zero to hero with the expense of minimal finances has been getting bigger and bigger. But it appears, the more resources available, the more complicated people make life for themselves.</p>
<p><a href="http://twitter.com">Twitter </a>keeps it simple; hashtag # your regular tweets to associate trends and <strong>focus on utilising your core followers to<a href="http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_retweet"> retweet</a> for you.</strong> <em>Heard about the 80/20 rule? </em><br />
No. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_principle">Click here.</a></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-560" title="TinieTempahTwitter" src="http://www.iamluca.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/tinietwitter-449x224.jpg" alt="tinietwitter 449x224 10 Reasons Why Musicians Must Use Twitter" width="449" height="224" /></p>
<p><strong> </strong>140 Characters to write isn&#8217;t a lot of effort and with modern technology, we have <a href="http://twitter.com">Twitter </a> and every other networking capability in the palm of our hands.<br />
So use it your advantage. Once you have your target market on your side, the rest is history.</p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>4. Always Stay Updated</strong></p>
<p>The days of watching the news, listening to radio and reading newspapers for daily updates are long behind us. Twitter is now the forefront of daily gossip and headlines; by following the people who are always up to date on their gossip and by paying attention to the trending topics you will always be on top of your game.</p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>5. Google Loves Twitter</strong></p>
<p>Yes it&#8217;s no hidden mystery that Google records all of your tweets. Scary? Slightly.</p>
<p>We know <strong>the Internet is one huge archive of your life that will NEVER get deleted</strong>. Anything you say on <a href="http://twitter.com">Twitter</a> can be found in <a href="http://google.com">Google </a> so be careful if you don&#8217;t want your life story brought to you in ten years.</p>
<p>Unfortunately when you use sites like <a href="http://bit.ly">Bit.Ly </a>or <a href="http://tinyurl.com/">Tiny URL </a>for your links; <a href="http://google.com">Google</a> can&#8217;t find them.</p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>6. Increased Direct Traffic and Monitor Your Stats</strong></p>
<p>Yeah Twitter is a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_network">Social Networking site</a> mainly used for networking and communication; but as a traffic source it can supply a large proportion of the links to any website.</p>
<p>By using tracking sites like <a href="http://www.google.com/analytics/">Google Analytics</a> linked directly to your <a href="http://iamluca.co.uk">home page</a> or<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-hosting"> self-hosted</a> blog, you can clearly monitor where your traffic is coming from and what keywords work and don&#8217;t. Use this to your advantage and <strong>tweet hot content, blog posts, videos, links and your homepage regularly.</strong></p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>7. Personal Branding and Recognition</strong></p>
<p>The Internet is the gateway to personal branding, giving you the ability to qualify yourself to your market as whatever you want them to view you as. Check out this post i wrote with tips on <a href="http://www.iamluca.co.uk/building-a-personal-brand-using-social-media/">&#8216;building a personal brand using social media.&#8217;</a></p>
<p>Start by capturing your perfect <strong>Twitter Handle</strong> (name). If you can&#8217;t find your perfect name try this site <a href="http://tweexchange.com/">Tweexchange</a> where you can buy names that are currently taken.</p>
<p>Then work out how to brand your Twitter Page for your followers. Both <a href="http://twitpaper.com/">Twitpaper</a> and <a href="http://www.custombackgroundsfortwitter.com/">Twitterimage</a> can help with that.</p>
<p>Make your bio clear, precise and link to your BEST website, NOT your Facebook page. (Rookie error!)</p>
<p><em>How can you expect a Record Label or Company to take you and your music seriously, if you don&#8217;t?</em></p>
<p>Check out a post <a href="http://mashable.com">Mashable</a> wrote <a href="http://mashable.com/2009/05/20/twitter-personal-brand/">on Twitter branding</a> for further reference.</p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>8. Real Time Search</strong></p>
<p>Both fundamentals 8 and 9 are about using the very strong <a href="http://search.twitter.com/">Twitter Search Engine</a> http://search.twitter.com. If you don&#8217;t use this, get using it. The advanced search options allow you to search for keywords and phrases, all in real time!</p>
<p>Meaning when you post a link, question or topic, you can monitor exactly who is responding and what they are saying. Try it out and type a few words that you want to search for. It is a VERY POWERFUL TOOL!</p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>9. Discover What People Are Saying About You</strong></p>
<p><em>Remember those days when you would wish you could know what everyone thinks about you?</em></p>
<p>Well the <a href="http://search.twitter.com/">Twitter Search Engine </a>option gives you that sixth sense. <strong>Take the time to search for keywords about you, your brand and your market. Knowledge is power!</strong></p>
<hr size="1" noshade="noshade" /><strong>10. Ask a Question, Get a Response</strong></p>
<p>Like <a href="http://google.com">Google</a>, where asking the right question will give you the right answer, <a href="http://twitter.com">Twitter</a> works very similar, but you have to ask the questions your fan-base want to hear. Give them the option to have the engagement for further conversation and play to their mindset.</p>
<p>You want to get them talking so use your head. <strong>If you ask the right questions and give comprehensive answers you will very quickly become a popular trend for interaction.<br />
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		<title>Industry Fakes and Industry Snakes</title>
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<p><em>So what do you do then?</em> Is the general question you ask someone after being introduced to a friendly face. Well that&#8217;s how they appear until they unleash their rehearsed lines from their invisible sack of bullsh*t that they carry with them. You know who im talking about; <strong>the relentless amount of fakers, takers, liars and snakes</strong> that continue to bombard us with their name drops of imaginary clients, fictional past projects and future ideas in their quest to jump on a bandwagon or poach on our vision to achieve the dream. <span id="more-254"></span></p>
<p>I work in the Entertainment industry, and my day to day life is focused around a selection of self networked projects. Meaning, i met a network and created an opportunity from that network which led to another opportunity and so forth. Hit the <a href="http://iamluca.co.uk/projects">Projects page</a> for more information on what exactly i am doing.<br />
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<p><strong>My Reality!</strong></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t make serious money, i don&#8217;t claim to be &#8216;balling&#8217; or driving a blacked out Range Rover Vogue. I live at home with my mum and make ends meet by assisting people with their projects, in the idea that networks will open, the projects will take off and reputation will do the rest. </p>
<p>But because i work in such a cut throat environment, everyone is out for themselves. I understand how difficult it is to make a dent in this industry. I am very open and welcoming to any new face, as anyone who knows me will say (<a href="http://iamluca.co.uk/testimonials">read the Testimonials page</a>), but if it&#8217;s one thing i have found i have as a super power, it&#8217;s a sixth sense to read the bullshit coming out of someones mouth (catch me in the new season of Heroes).</p>
<p>A friend once told me, <em>&#8220;you can only really trust someone who speaks from valid experience, and when in a business meeting with a new character, they will generally try and qualify themselves to you as you would to them within the first few minutes of engagement&#8221;</em>&#8230; first impressions are everything right?<br />
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<p><strong>The Great Game</strong></p>
<p>So like an interview, but where it is less formal and they know you won&#8217;t actually ask for a reference, they feel the need to not only exaggerate on their experience, but implement fictional events into their description like they are reading Lord of the Rings to a class of children.</p>
<p>I tend to call this, <strong>&#8216;talking a good game&#8217;</strong>. It is basically a sales pitch, where they believe that by being something they are not, they can open doors and create shortcuts through the industry.<br />
They also claim this story to be true so much that they live by it and are actually enthused by their false achievements. </p>
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<p><strong>How Can You Recognize &#8216;A Great Game&#8217;?</strong></p>
<p>Name dropping is a perfect tell sign&#8230; ever heard the line,<em> &#8220;yeah i worked with &#8230;.. a little while back on his album/tour/release&#8221;</em> or<em> &#8220;I&#8217;m just about to sign a deal with this company&#8221;</em>&#8230; oh yeah, we say, as we inquire a little further into the story like we are paying for the entertainment&#8230; <em>&#8220;but i can&#8217;t actually say the name of the company, the date of the meeting or the contact who hooked me up.&#8221; </em>So i thought&#8230;<br />
<em>You just decided to reel me in like a worm on a fishing rod so that i will introduce you to my very real contact/client list?</em></p>
<p>Other ways of noticing this hot trend is by excuses the gamer will use. As they cannot prove their experience or find clarity in their name drops, they will stall on meetings they originally agreed to wholeheartedly or will make up another story to back up their original lies ie: &#8220;<em>Sorry i can&#8217;t bring over this act/client to the meeting as we are in LA working in the studio.&#8221;</em> Smell something? Yes that&#8217;s the stench of rotting bullsh*t.</p>
<p>While everyone exaggerates in one way or another, whether it&#8217;s editing your CV in your favor for a job or trying to impress a hot female (yeah i have done both), i believe that reputation is everything. </p>
<p><strong>Reputation is your brand, and will stick with you through everything that you do.</strong> I am all for people doing <em>&#8216;whatever it takes&#8217;</em> to make it, but if history has taught us anything, it is that the truth always comes out&#8230; and when it does, you would kinda wanna save the embarrassment of having to admit your deceit.</p>
<p>While you may have made the money, success and power you dreamed of achieving whilst plotting your game plan; your consumers, customers, friends and networks will only remember the negative feedback and press you WILL receive in the end.<br />
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<p><strong>What Are You Saying Then?</strong></p>
<p><strong>To The Gamers:</strong><br />
Be you&#8230; Don&#8217;t reinvent the wheel to be original, but live your life and achieve your goals in a way that new contacts you network with, will only be able to say, &#8220;<em>you know what, use &#8230;.. as he&#8217;s a good guy and will help you/your company out&#8221;.</em> That&#8217;s building a network, and <strong>word of mouth is still the most popular form of promotion!<br />
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But if people start spreading your lies for you and forwarding your stories on because they believe you are for real, you will eventually have to bring some form of clarity, and when you can&#8217;t justify yourself, you can only back up your lies with more lies before your reputation is buried.</p>
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		<title>Just Another Chapter In My Story&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 14:47:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Luca</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A post to try and explain the thoughts and feelings that we have when we are emotionally involved in a situation, and the decisions we make.]]></description>
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<p>It&#8217;s been a kind of rough few days and i wanted to write something to help those that may also be going through any hard times whether it be work related, relationships, financial or anything else.</p>
<p>Our lives tend to be carried by emotions and i find that especially within myself, although my business decisions are generally based on analysis and are conservative, my personal decisions, especially when i am emotionally involved, are rash and uncontrollable.<span id="more-47"></span><br />
I look back over the years and can see similar traits of where i have excelled in enterprising and understanding theory within business, but have always had weaknesses with becoming emotionally attached to something or someone (this can relate to a partner or are business you created from scratch yourself).</p>
<p>As time passes, we encounter challenge after challenge that sets us apart as humans, each one being more difficult, and while we should learn from previous mistakes, sometimes it&#8217;s easy to get so emotionally involved that our knowledge and our ability to analyze a situation goes out the window.</p>
<p>So i am sitting here wondering about the last few days and how i got myself into a situation that i never really imagined being in (not anytime soon anyway). How it got to the point, that i had forced a decision to be made, <em>when if i had approached the scenario with the same thinking i use within business, would the outcome have been different?</em></p>
<p>While i don&#8217;t want to think too much about my decisions and the possibility of regretting the outcome, as i never want to live in regret. I can only try to understand the large gap that separates my head and my heart, without being too cliche.<br />
I know i am not the only one in this position, and while thousands of people go through pain and anguish everyday, and moreover, while we watch as a country that has been destroyed by natural disaster, where thousands of lives have been ruined, i remain positive about my future, the opportunities that are ahead and the challenges i will encounter as time passes.</p>
<p>I believe that every challenge we come up against is a test of our character; our ability to overcome. The theory that <strong>&#8216;whatever doesn&#8217;t kill me, can only make me stronger&#8217;</strong> is one that i fully accept and understand. Yet in many situations i have this involuntary desire to object against my inner strength and ability and can fall weak to my emotions, especially the memories of what we once regarded as &#8216;that perfect place&#8217;.</p>
<p>I recently found, that although &#8216;life&#8217; (in inverted commas) gets us down, depressed, negative, upset, worried, confused, uncertain etc, it is the art of <strong>&#8216;progression</strong>&#8216;, that keeps us believing in ourselves. Meaning that if you are able to move past this challenge and conquer whatever has the potential to hold you down, then you have progressed. You have moved forward, and while your brain and heart will still hold the memory, the wound will heal; thus in short, you have succeeded in that challenge. </p>
<p>I like to think of things on an annual cycle, for example,<em> is the position you are in now, a step further than the position you were in this time last yea</em>r? <em>Was 2009 a successful year for you?</em> <em>Did you end it further ahead than you was at the end of 2008?</em><br />
It was for me; as i graduated from University, participated in a great challenge with <a href="http://orangerockcorps.co.uk">Orange Rockcorps</a>, created and established an array of business ventures, networked efficiently thus creating new opportunities, made some great friends and also met a wonderful girl (i really don&#8217;t have to explain the outcome of this though).</p>
<p>This is just a brain dump of my thoughts and feelings, merely because writing this out, allows me to read about myself from an external angle. It will also act as an archive that i can look to further down the line, to monitor my progress. </p>
<p>I want to end this post, by stating this analogy.</p>
<p>Every challenge is like a chapter in a story; the story of your life. While the chapter will eventually come to an end, it does so to let another chapter begin. The next challenge will not be the final chapter in your life, and as your story goes on, each chapter will make it easier to understand what this story is about. As you progress, the book will become clear and you can conquer the rest of the story with ease.</p>
<p>As always, this is a blog of my honest thoughts and feelings, and if this helps you in anyway, please post your comments below. Any comments are appreciated and i hope you enjoyed the read.<strong>Similar Posts:</strong>
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